Why does a man get a mistress?

The biggest mistake of women who have an affair with a married man is the desire to build a relationship with him. Because the man already has a relationship. According to psychologists, when the "basic" needs are met (home, hearth, household issues, children - real or expected), you need a "superstructure", ie what is missing in their "clutter" life ... This superstructure is a mistress. ...

Why does a man get a mistress? To realize sexual fantasies

Every man has sexual fantasies. And if he fails to realize them with his wife, he will come to you. With a whole box of "conceived but not realized" - to find out in porn movies or scripts invented by him personally ...

You will immediately understand that your wife does not know about them or refuses to "obey". Because these fantasies will come to your disposal immediately, sometimes flavored with complaints that "they do not do it with his wife." Forms of proposals are various: "Let's do so ...", "What if ...", "Do you like when ...?"

To do or not to do is your business. Give in to persuasion - "1: 0" in your favor ... Only is the game of candles worth it? You still can't see the Golden Cup ...

 Why does a man get a mistress? He wants to flirt!

Man is such a creature that he has to be "in the saddle" all day long, to prove to himself and others what they think about him, want him, dream about him. Nothing motivates a man to work like flirting.

Being in a state of slight arousal, he feels like a hero, working miracles - concluding contracts with complex clients, making important decisions, performing brilliantly at meetings ... After all, nothing gives a man as much self-confidence as awareness of his own attractiveness and desirability.

That is why married men often look for girls on the Internet. Not only and not so much for the sake of sex, but for the sake of exciting communication.

... He asks you to describe your fantasies in Asti, asks what color your underwear is, writes what he would do with you now, if you were around. Then he asks what you would do. And you, putting in motion all the writing talent, begin to write phrases with lots of dots and exclamation marks. You slowly undress him, then let go of the language, then sit on it ... In the virtual, of course ...

How they love it! And then they gather at 6 pm and go home in their car to say: "Hello, darling!" - And realize the accumulated with you for the day of arousal with his lawful wife. Where to get excitement for you - your personal problem.
Why does a man get a mistress? He wants understanding

And they often want participation and understanding. Wives have long been reluctant to understand anything - just demand and make claims. You are another matter. You are so kind, compassionate and considerate. And he always has something to tell about himself, his work, his life, to complain and brag ... Again - to hear a dozen compliments addressed to him.

"One of my lovers, when I announced the break to him, you know what he said?" - Choking with laughter, Lenka asked. - He asked if we could remain friends, because he would very much like to discuss with me some details of his sex life, "consult", so to speak. I almost fell then - I found a sexologist for free, damn it ... "

So what? In Russian society, where it is still not customary to seek help from psychoanalysts, the mistress plays well in this game.

Why does a man get a mistress? For a variety of ...

If the wife - the "drug" is constant, the mistress can be "dosed". Is sex with your wife enough? Wonderful! You can not show up at the mistress for at least a week, and then push everything to employment, business trips and control of the lawful wife. In the relationship with his wife, "something got colder" - it's time for a mistress who will warm up, entertain, entertain, drive away apathy or manifestations of middle age ...

You can't "turn off" your wife and stay in silence, you can turn off your cell phone, ICQ, and Skype with your mistress - because she won't call her husband at home, demand explanations why he was unavailable on his cell phone. She will, of course, resent the fact that you are gone for ... days, but men cope with the scandal of the mistress in two accounts. Bouquet, "wreath", "candy" and 15 minutes of persuasion work flawlessly.

Lovers are unprofitable to get angry for a long time, because the time is always limited, meeting opportunities are always limited, and therefore the scandal is always arranged in a "cut", "shortened" version. As a demo version of the game ...


Whether to play games with married men is up to you. Just don't think you will win. Remember that the name of the winner has already been announced. Therefore it is necessary to begin or continue only in one case - if you agree to play not for the sake of a victory, and for the sake of participation